A confused man has messaged Ghanaian relationship coach, Abena Manokekami asking for help over the recent change in behaviour of his girlfriend.
The man who identifies himself as a medical practitioner said she took care of the girl through college because she was an orphan. But now that she has completed and is now doing her national service, she has started fooling.
The man said he met another guy in the room which he rented for this lady on two occasions. But she came back begging.
As it stands, the lady also has a little sister whom the guy is willing to help but because of how she’s behaving, he’s having second thoughts.
He’s hence asking for advice on if he should go ahead and look after the little girl or not.
Read his full message below:
“I met this girl thru my sis when I was in 4th yr medical school n she was at 1st yr in the college. She is an orphan so I did my to help her complete school and now a national service personnel.
when we first I saw her as a staunched Christian so I decided to stop chasing other girls and be with her alone.
Ff this girl started misbehaving when got to third year.I have personally meet a guy in her room I rented n provided everything in it on two different occasions in odd hrs and she comes back to plead.
Now the trust and love for her is gone but she has a little sis I love to help because she is too smart .Right now am confused even though I am still keeping her around trying to let go whatever has happened but I am finding it difficult. How do I get over it so that I can still help the little sister. For her I think i have to pay her back at the right time.”